Monday Mask: Your Experience | Trailblazer Divorce Coaching

You have had the Monday Mask Toolkit for a few weeks now. You have read things, maybe used a few of them, and something has shifted, even slightly, even just in how you name what you are carrying.

I want to know what that looked like for you. What landed. What did not. What you wished had been there. What you would tell the woman who is exactly where you were when you found this.

This is not a survey. It is a conversation I cannot have in real time. Your answers take about five to eight minutes and they genuinely shape what comes next, for you and for the woman behind you.

What were you dealing with when you found the Monday Mask Toolkit?

Not the overview. The specific thing. The one that was costing you the most that week.

Which domain came up heaviest in your Invisible Labor Inventory?

If you completed it more than once, what has been consistently highest?

Legal and Administrative: the paperwork, the deadlines, the attorney correspondence Co-Parenting and Relational: the ongoing relational weight of this transition Emotional and Identity: the erosion of knowing who I am when the performance stops Professional Performance: the cost of showing up to work while carrying all of this Financial: the numbers, the decisions, the weight of figuring this out alone I have not completed the inventory yet

Was there a specific moment, section, or tool in the toolkit where something shifted?

A sentence that landed differently. A permission slip you came back to. A script you used before you needed it. A Sunday Reset that changed something about Monday. Name it specifically if you can.

How useful has the toolkit been to you, honestly?

1 = not what I needed right now. 5 = exactly what I needed and I have already returned to it.

Not what I neededExactly what I needed

What did you do differently, or what are you thinking about differently, because of this?

In a conversation, at work, on a Sunday evening, in how you see the weight you carry. Even a small shift counts here.

Was there something you hoped was in here that was not?

A domain the toolkit touched but not deeply enough. Something you are still carrying that none of the resources addressed. I want the honest gap.

What would you tell the woman who is exactly where you were when you found this?

She is thinking about using the toolkit. She is hesitating. What do you say to her?

08 Optional

May I use your feedback as a testimonial?

If yes, I will always send you the polished version for your approval before I use it anywhere. You stay in control of what gets shared and how you are identified.

Yes, you can use my first name Yes, initials only please Yes, keep me anonymous No, this is just for your eyes

09 Optional

If you would like me to follow up with you directly about anything in your answers, leave your name and email.

Not for marketing. Only if there is something in what you shared that I want to respond to personally.

Thank you for this. What you share here shapes what the next woman who finds the toolkit receives, and what gets built next in the TDC ecosystem for the domains you named.

Thank you. Genuinely.

What you shared here matters. Not in a polite, form-response way. In the way that means I now know something specific about what is working and what the next version needs to get right. If you gave me permission to use your feedback and left your email, I will be in touch with the polished version before I use anything. And if something in what you shared made me want to respond directly, I will.

You did something real when you picked up this toolkit. Putting it down for five minutes to tell me honestly what it was. That is something real too.

Tell me what actually happened.

Thank you. Genuinely.