The Mistakes People Make When Meeting With a Divorce Attorney (And How to Avoid Them)

She had written notes. Three pages of them, in the margins of a yellow legal pad she bought specifically for this. She had rehearsed what she wanted to say on the drive over. She had even looked up the attorney’s bio online, which told her very little except that he had been practicing for twenty-two years and went to law school in Florida.

She sat down across from him, and the second he started talking, the notes became irrelevant.

She nodded. She said “Okay” more than she meant to. She left an hour later with a retainer agreement she had not fully read and the specific sensation of having missed something important without knowing what.

If this sounds familiar, you are in the majority. Not because you are underprepared or incapable. Because nobody teaches you how to show up to this meeting.